These are my ideas about Jay Cataldo’s post on his life coaching blog, and Cesar Millan’s YouTube Channel, see below for links to my sources.
First off, don’t get me wrong. I am not saying women are dogs, and I am not saying men are dogs either.What I am saying is that humans can learn something about themselves from dogs.
Cesar says something VITAL here! Simply change the word dog, to “my girlfriend”, to “myself”, to “humans”.
httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yv99TwwKeXU
Most guys do not understand this. And it is about WHEN to give affection. If you give affection to a dog when it is going crazy, then you are positively reinforcing bad behavior!
The same goes for people, and in our case, our girlfriends. If a girl does something bad, WHY on earth would you reward it with affection OR the fight she is looking for? In Cesar’s words, “that only says I agree with that behavior”
Be a rock. Stand strong. Don’t take anything she throws at you. Wait until she is calm to talk about it. and wait until she does something you like, to give her affection. Hopefully, she will do the same for you, so you can learn to stop your bad behaviors as well.
Give a girl affection and reinforce her good behavior with praise and gratitude. Hope she does the same for you, so you do not become a controlling jerk.
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Watching the dog whisperer has given me relationship insight, because I know that many, if not most people love to be led. Your girl is likely no exception. YOU are likely no exception. If you are always asking “what do you want to do?” or “what do you want to eat?”
You may think you are being “nice,” but in reality, you are being lazy. laziness is the way FOLLOWERS act. Leaders KNOW, what thier friends or girlfriend wants, and takes them there.
There is no need to ASK, just lead. If she doesn’t like what you chose, then listen to her input. but if she is not saying “hey let’s go eat here!” THEN YOU SHOULD BE.
In a wild pack of dogs, there is a leader, and Cesar Millan helps humans learn to replace that leader and become the leader of a pack of dogs or dog.
Leading is truly a pain in the butt, because we have to think about the others and decide what will make them all happy, and decide how to help them reach the next level. If you want to make your girl/woman happy, then in most instances, you will need to lead her in the same way that Cesar Millan leads dogs.
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Check out Jay Cataldo’s life coaching blog post
Check out Cesar Millan’s YouTube Channel
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